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by Brenda Fullick
For
Jennifer Cook, Mother's Day was
the hardest.
She had no visitors that day.
Most of her friends and their
kids were having a barbecue, and
they agreed to take Cook's 12-year-old
daughter along. Cook missed seeing
her, but says it was probably
for the better. She didn't really
want her child spending Mother's
Day in prison anyway.
"She was there, but she
didn't have her mom," Cook
says. "That was hard for
me."
Cook is an inmate at the Iowa
Medical and Classification Center,
a state prison in Oakdale that
processes incoming offenders and
houses inmates with urgent medical
needs, including many of the women
who enter the system pregnant.
Cook is in her third trimester,
pregnant with twins. Her light
blue, prison-issued shirt is stretched
taut across her rotund belly;
its buttons appear ready to pop
at any moment. She walks slowly,
wobbling from side to side from
the weight on her swollen feet
and ankles. On May 31, Cook celebrated
her 30th birthday (another difficult
day, she says), although her girlish
features and the smattering of
freckles across her nose belie
her age by an easy five years.
The pregnancy wasn't planned,
Cook says. She got her positive
test results on Dec. 2, one month
after she was arrested for shoplifting
four purses from a Von Maur store
in Wisconsin. Petty retail theft
usually doesn't warrant prison
time, but Cook has a rap sheet
that stretches back to 1994, all
shoplifting offenses. She served
70 days in a county jail in 1996,
but the punishment didn't stop
her from continuing to steal.
She was on probation when she
was busted last November.
Her boyfriend, the father of
the twins she's carrying, was
arrested with her. He was sent
to prison in Wisconsin, but Cook
managed to convince the judge
to let her serve her time in Iowa,
nearer to her mother, who has
agreed to take care of
the babies if Cook isn't paroled
before she delivers.
Cook's daughter, who just finished
fifth grade, is staying with a
family friend until Cook is released.
The girl visits her mom in prison
twice a week, and they talk on
the phone most other days.
"I wanted to promise her,
'You'll get to go to doctor's
appointments with me and see the
ultrasounds,' and that has not
happened," Cook says. "I
tell her all the time, 'I'm sorry.'"
Instead, a corrections officer
escorts Cook to her prenatal appointments
at the University of Iowa Hospitals
and Clinics in Iowa City. (The
state foots the bill for inmates'
exams and deliveries.) She's handcuffed
during transport and while she's
in the waiting room. After she
undresses, she's re-cuffed to
the exam table for the entirety
of the checkup. She's heard from
other incarcerated mothers that
she won't have to be restrained
during the actual delivery.
"It's starting to get harder
now..." Cook says. "This
month is going to be kind of stressful.
I am getting bigger, like, daily...
"It's been an emotional rollercoaster...
the pregnancy and leaving behind
your kid, and not knowing exactly
when you're gonna see the [parole]
board."
Women
comprise the fastest-growing segment
of the prison population in the
United States, with their rate
of incarceration increasing by
almost 800 percent since the late
1970s. As the number of imprisoned
females skyrockets, so too does
the number of pregnant prisoners
- and the number of kids with
a parent behind bars. In 2000,
1.5 million children in the U.S.
had a mother or father in prison,
according to the U.S. Bureau of
Justice Statistics (BJS).
Most women in state prisons
are moms, and due to stiff mandatory-sentencing
laws and the federal government's
war on drugs, a majority of these
women are nonviolent offenders.
Drug charges and property crimes
(such as theft and fraud) are
now the most common reasons women
are sent to prison. A full one-third
of inmate mothers said they committed
their crimes to get drugs or money
for drugs, the BJS report found.
This changing population poses
new challenges for a correctional
system designed primarily for
men. Treating female inmates requires
a different approach to issues
like substance abuse, mental illness
(particularly depression) and
healthcare. Thanks to a recent
report by Amnesty International
and subsequent media reports,
several states are rethinking
their standards for of care, especially
for pregnant inmates and their
children.
The Amnesty study caused major
waves when it revealed that most
states allow or even require women
to be handcuffed, chained at the
waist or shackled at the ankles
during gynecological exams and
even childbirth.
Cassie Pierson, staff attorney
for Legal Services for Prisoners
with Children, based in California,
says shackling women during checkups
and delivery is not only demeaning
but often dangerous for the inmate
and her newborn. Several state
corrections departments are currently
being sued by women who claim
they've suffered injury as a result
of the way the department handled
the birth process.
Iowa is among eight states that
have no written policy governing
the use of restraints on pregnant
women, although the Iowa Department
of Corrections (DOC) does require
that the prison guard present
during delivery is a female. E-mails
from Terry Boehlje, of the Iowa
DOC, to Amnesty International
say that in most cases, no restraints
are used during labor or delivery.
Pierson doesn't believe that's
good enough. She thinks state
lawmakers need to enact legislation
that guarantees women won't be
subjected to restraint. Legal
Services for Prisoners with Children
recently pushed California to
become the second state to pass
an anti-shackling law. (Illinois
was the first.) In preparation
for the bill's debate, Pierson
convinced several former inmates
to testify before the legislature,
and she relayed chilling stories
collected from other inmate moms
still locked up.
As a result, there was very
little opposition to the bill.
Even Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger
signed it without hesitation.
"It seemed like the right
time to do something," Pierson
says. "Many of our women
legislators are concerned about
women-in-prison issues."
For states like California and
New York, which is now considering
similar legislation, the sheer
volume of pregnant prisoners has
forced female healthcare and childbirth
to the forefront.
"As the female prison population
keeps growing, it's going to become
more of an issue for Iowa, Kansas
and some of the smaller states,"
Pierson predicts.
Kara
Goslin, the certified physician
assistant at Oakdale, says the
number of inmate pregnancies in
Iowa varies. Each inmate who enters
prison is given a medical exam;
female prisoners take a pregnancy
test. If a woman is determined
to have a high-risk pregnancy,
which most often is due to prior
drug use, she stays at Oakdale
for the remainder of the gestation.
If the pregnancy is routine, the
inmate is sent to the women's
prison at Mitchellville, then
returned to Oakdale - closer to
University Hospital, where she
will deliver - about 60 days before
her due date. Women can opt to
terminate the pregnancy, but Goslin
says it is up to the woman to
initiate the conversation about
abortion, and to pay for the procedure.
At one point last year, Oakdale
was home to nine pregnant women.
Currently, there are two (one
of whom is Jennifer Cook), in
addition to the expecting moms
at Mitchellville.
Goslin says expecting mothers
are allowed additional gym time
to stretch and walk, and one extra
snack and a carton of milk before
bed (dinner is at 4 p.m.; breakfast
isn't until 6:30 the next morning).
"We also provide prenatal
vitamins... and they can watch
a video about labor, and the possibility
of a C-section," she says,
adding that many of the women
she sees are already mothers and
know what to expect.
But the toughest thing for most
moms-to-be is knowing they'll
have to relinquish their babies
shortly after birth, Goslin says.
Iowa corrections policy dictates
that the women are returned to
prison a few days after the delivery,
while a spouse or relative is
granted temporary custody of the
baby. Depending on the circumstances,
some mothers choose to give their
children up for adoption, or the
state places the babies in foster
care.
Jessamine Lamoudi was born on
Feb. 7. She was a healthy baby
girl, weighing in at just over
8 pounds, with a shock of dark
hair that matches her mother Nikki's.
Doctors had been concerned about
the excess fluid surrounding the
fetus, so they performed an emergency
C-section. That meant Jessamine's
grandma couldn't make it to the
hospital in Iowa City in time
to witness the delivery. The only
people in the room with Nikki
Lamoudi when she gave birth to
Jessamine were her doctors and
a prison guard. She was not restrained
or cuffed during the delivery.
Lamoudi was allowed three days
with her new baby before her mother
arrived and took the infant home
to Illinois. That was the last
time Lamoudi saw her daughter.
Back at the state women's prison
in Mitchellville, she's watching
Jessamine grow through the photos
that her mother sends, and the
occasional phone call.
"I talk to her on the phone
from prison, and I just tell her,
'Jessamine, this is Mommy,' and
I'll say, 'Mommy's coming home
soon,'" Lamoudi says.
Lamoudi is 25 years old. She
has four other children, all of
whom are in foster care in Illinois.
She recently learned that the
foster families are trying to
adopt her children, and she's
waging a legal battle from prison
to try to keep them. It's an uphill
struggle. Lamoudi is currently
serving time for conspiracy to
deliver cocaine, and she isn't
due for parole until next February.
The father of her first two children
was murdered last year. And the
father of the middle two kids
was deported to Africa, after
he was caught trying to sell drugs
to an undercover agent in Iowa
- the same incident that landed
Lamoudi in prison.
"I was with him at the
wrong point in time," she
says.
Lamoudi says she's never taken
drugs, and she still struggles
with the fact that she allowed
herself to get attached to someone
who ended up causing her incarceration
and separation from her family.
At Mitchellville, she's taking
parenting classes and working
toward getting her high school
diploma. She wants to show the
custody judge that she's capable
of taking care of her kids. But
that might not matter. Under the
1997 federal Adoption and Safe
Families Act, the state must begin
looking for permanent adoptive
families for children who have
been in foster care for 15 of
the prior 22 months.
Although it was designed to protect
children from being neglected
by their biological parents, the
law has severed countless relationships
for the rising number of women
who are incarcerated for nonviolent
offenses.
Lamoudi has participated in
two foster hearings via telephone,
and she's not sure what the outcome
will be. She wants her kids back,
and she says she's learning the
tools that will enable her to
provide for her family when she
gets out of prison. Her brown
eyes well up with tears when she
talks about how much she misses
her children.
"I can honestly say I'm
a good mother. I know I haven't
been able to be there with my
children like I want to be there
with them, but I know if I had
the chance to, I would be the
best mother in the world."
Both state- and nationwide, very
little research and funding have
been devoted to the study and
care of pregnant inmates. While
there are nonprofit and faith-based
organizations that mentor female
inmates in Iowa, there are few
- if any - that work primarily
with pregnant inmates or recently
incarcerated moms.
Dr. Denise Johnston says that's
not unusual. She estimates that
only 5 to 6 percent of states
have programs or organizations
dedicated specifically to prison
moms - and she thinks the severe
lack of programming for these
mothers is a tragedy.
As a pediatrician and the founding
director of the California-based
Center for Children of Incarcerated
Parents, Johnston believes the
best way to profoundly impact
mothers' lives - and to prevent
them from reoffending and further
damaging their relationships with
their kids - is to reach them
while they're pregnant.
Increasingly overcrowded prisons
and climbing recidivism rates
have made it clear that the American
convention of locking an offender
behind bars, with no focus on
treatment, rehabilitation or personalized
care, is failing. So, using a
variety of grants and private
donations, Johnston's group has
launched several groundbreaking
projects aimed at truly reforming
inmates and their kids.
One such concept allows mothers
to keep their babies with them
in special nursery wards at the
prison for up to a year after
birth, as long as the mother is
scheduled for release within that
year. The idea - not without its
critics, who argue that prison
is an unhealthy place for kids
to spend their first 12 months
of life - is that allowing a mother
more time to bond with her child
will motivate her and produce
stronger family connections on
the outside. Women who participate
in this program also receive therapy,
parenting classes, educational
support and criminal-justice advocacy.
California is slated to open
its first prison nursery this
summer, Johnston says. Already,
five other states have implemented
the program.
"Miracle" is another
of Johnston's programs. It pairs
each pregnant woman with a mentor
from the center. Many prison outreach
services end when the inmate is
released, which Johnston says
is a critical mistake. Mothers
find themselves in the same communities,
facing the same situations, temptations
and often-abusive relationships,
that sent them to prison in the
first place. A mentor from the
Miracle program meets weekly with
the ex-inmate until her child
is 5 years old.
"This is the only project
of its kind," Johnston says.
"Other programs work with
pregnant prisoners, but we don't
know of anybody putting in the
type of time we do, in terms of
how long they stay with us and
the nature of the support."
Miracle first began accepting
mothers in 2002, which means the
oldest children in the program
are approaching 4 years old. Johnston
says the results have been "amazing."
Recidivism rates for the mothers
are negligible, and none of the
babies in the program have been
afflicted with developmental disabilities,
premature birth or congenital
problems.
"For the majority of women,
this has stuck," Johnston
says. "They are not going
back to jail, not relapsing, and
performing well as parents. A
lot of them are becoming productive
as citizens. When it works, it
works extremely well."
Jean Basinger, an activist with
Iowa CURE, a nonprofit organization
focusing on prisoners' rights,
would love to see a nursery program
in Iowa. CURE fields inmates'
complaints about everything from
nutrition to adequate visiting
hours. CURE hasn't worked specifically
with pregnant inmates, Basinger
says, although more and more female
prisoners have contacted the group
in recent years.
"We get a lot of complaints
from the women about healthcare
- mainly that health problems
are not addressed in a timely
manner or that they are charged
[for a service]... when they are
not supposed to be charged for
it... They say they are not getting
their routine exams like they
are supposed to, and their pap
smears," Basinger says.
CURE members have recently discussed
the importance of inmate-child
bonding programs, but Basinger
says anything close to a nursery-type
program would be "difficult
in Iowa, because some people question
whether prison is the right atmosphere
for raising a baby.
"That is something we would
like to see happen - that they
have more contact with their infants,"
she says. "I think when they're
in the infant stages, it is so
important for them to be with
their mother and have that bonding
process take place, rather than
them being taken immediately from
their mother."
Jennifer Cook considers herself
fortunate. Her family lives only
25 minutes away, in Cedar Rapids.
Her friends have already pitched
in to buy diapers, two car seats
and two cribs for the babies.
And she doesn't have to worry
about losing her older daughter
to foster care while she serves
her sentence. Although she can't
communicate directly with the
twins' father (contact is forbidden
for unmarried inmates in separate
prisons), the couple passes information
about Cook's prenatal exams and
the fetuses' growth through a
cousin, who is in regular contact
with them both.
Most importantly, though, Cook's
case goes before the parole board
within days of her due date. If
everything goes as planned, she
may be able to leave the hospital
with her twins. Most inmates aren't
so lucky.
Now that she's so far along,
she spends most of her time resting
in bed, watching TV, reading books
or doing paint-by-numbers in the
art room at Oakdale. She doesn't
want to put any more stress on
the babies. The last seven months
have been difficult enough.
Still, even with all the support
she has from family and friends,
Cook knows life won't be easy
when she's released.
"I don't have a job...
On top of getting out, I'll have
two babies, and then find daycare
and find employment, and my daughter
is starting sixth grade. So I've
got a lot to do...
"Hopefully soon everybody
will all be home, and we can just
move forward. I'm ready for all
of us to be under one roof."
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