Cityview, Get Out of Town
The biggest reason Cityview should
get out of town is that you're
hardly an excuse for an alternative
paper. You prove it by largely
ignoring the dynamic gubernatorial
candidacy of Ed Fallon. In your
recent piece on the widespread
political influence of Bill Knapp
and his associates, you write:
"Just try to find an elected
official in Central Iowa whose
campaign disclosure report doesn't
bear their name. As an elected
official here, it's tough to get,
well, elected, without Knapp helping
you along." Well, Ed Fallon
has won seven terms as a state
representative by refusing to
play the big-money game. His calls
for a clean election system -
which would give Bill Knapp the
same power as every other voter
- is a refreshing sign for Iowa's
future. Too bad Cityview is so
stuck in conventional wisdom that
it fails to notice or report it.
Jon Krieg
Des Moines
Editor's note: Was it our cover
story about Ed Fallon or the three
times his name has been in the
headline of our Civic Skinny column
that makes him so ignored? As
for Ed and Iowa's future, his
not "playing the game"
is probably why he won't be in
it come next November.
Hug your homophobic
So I'm sitting at work, waiting
for our pizza to get here, and
for some reason I remember a conversation
I had last night. Someone calls
and tells me that he spent the
day interviewing gay couples in
Des Moines/Urbandale, and then
talked to the state Speaker of
the House. He describes the interviews,
so I decide to watch the news
that night and see what I really
thought. The gay guys on TV weren't
your stereotypical, youthful gay
men that you see plastered in
TV shows and the media. These
were seniors, who acted the same
as any grandparent I've ever seen.
They are two people who fell in
love and have lived together for
four years. They are devoted to
each other, and show just as much
love, if not more, than any straight
couple I had seen before. The
men can't get married in Iowa
yet; however, they filed a lawsuit
to have the right to do just that.
Cut from the nice, loving couple
to a scrawny-looking man dressed
in a white shirt and red tie.
This guy begins to talk about
how allowing those two men to
marry would cause horrible effects
that would turn our children into
degenerates, that would make thousands
of children gay, that would just
totally abolish any kind of future
for our children. Well, I'm sorry,
but what the fuck? These men aren't
messing with the Catholic Church.
They aren't asking to be allowed
to parade around nude, begging
small children to touch them and
join the following. They are simply
asking for the right to be seen
as a married couple, and be allowed
the same legal and social privileges
of marriage as anyone else. These
men aren't recruiting gay people.
These men aren't spreading disease.
They are just like you and me,
but happen to love someone of
the same gender. While I may not
be gay, I certainly believe they
should be allowed to have every
right that married men and women
do. It's not like they love any
less.
Nate Borland
Des Moines
The right of marriage
Sometimes in our lives we find
ourselves completely taken over
by love for another human being.
For most of us when this happens
you pop the question and the wedding
planning commences. In recent
years, same sex marriages ("Pigheaded,"
Dec. 29) are beginning to be more
frequently requested and these
people are denied because people
don't like the thought of it.
How is it anyone else's business
who you want to marry? How are
we as human beings going to deny
them basic human rights and the
right to privacy? We allow 16-year-old
children to marry, and yet, we
are denying fully consenting adults
the right to be married simply
because they are of the same sex.
The sad thing about this is that
all you need to be married underage
is a parent's signature. But if
you are of the same sex and wish
to be married forget it. Well,
how can we as human beings go
on telling ourselves we are doing
the right thing "for our
children" when our children
have nothing to do with this.
The president tried to define
that marriage is between man and
woman. Says who? They tell us
that we have freedom, but it obviously
does that only apply to certain
situations. I am a straight, married
female and I still feel this way
about same-sex marriages. And
the bottom line is this if you
love someone you should be allowed
to be with that person regardless
of gender, sexual orientation,
religion, whatever. If you love
someone you should be allowed
to love that person completely
in any way you choose as consenting
adults.
April Cottrell
Des Moine
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